"And don’t change the goal! The important thing is that the goal stays perfectly still; if the goalpost keeps moving, you’ll live in a state of always-reaching and we try not to live in that anxious place anymore, you know?" OMG THIS!!!!! This is what I've been struggling with soooo much. As soon as my goal is within the reach, I'm like oooh okay, what's the next step? and it never ends, I never feel like I'm accomplishing anything, even though I am, because I'm rarely giving myself a permission to just sit still with my successes and celebrate.
Thank you for this <3
"And don’t change the goal! The important thing is that the goal stays perfectly still; if the goalpost keeps moving, you’ll live in a state of always-reaching and we try not to live in that anxious place anymore, you know?" OMG THIS!!!!! This is what I've been struggling with soooo much. As soon as my goal is within the reach, I'm like oooh okay, what's the next step? and it never ends, I never feel like I'm accomplishing anything, even though I am, because I'm rarely giving myself a permission to just sit still with my successes and celebrate.